Take
care of your anonymity
Keep in mind you are in control of your online experience and you can
maintain your anonymity until you feel ready.
Do
not include personal contact particulars like email, home address,
telephone numbers or your last name, in your profile display. Such
information may be given when you are comfortable with and know that
the person you are communicating with is trustworthy. Even then only
give information that you feel is necessary and are comfortable with
giving.
Keep
away from people who pressure you for personal information or any other
information that you don't want to reveal until later. Take your time
and go at your own pace.
Create
an email account
Create an email account just for online dating.
Watch
out
With a number of profiles posted and created each day you may come
across some profiles where the persons online portrayal may not be
his/her true self. Keep a look out for strange behavior or
inconsistencies that could help you judge such kind of portrayals. Keep
away if your feel something is just not right.
No
obligation
The attractiveness of online meeting and communication is that it
allows you to get to know more about the person at a pace suitable to
both of you. You have no compulsion to meet the other person regardless
of the amount of information exchanged.
Go
offline only when comfortable
Keep in mind you don't need to take things further than online
communication or at best telephone conversations till you feel really
comfortable with the situation.
Ask
for photo/s
Photos can give you a good idea about the person and help you in
judging the person further. It would be useful to view more photos of
the person in different settings. At a subsequent phase seeing photos
of his/her family members or friends would also help gain more insight.
Keep in mind to request for more photos when the time is
right.
Chat
on the phone
A conversation can tell you more about the person, his/her
communication, social skills etc. Take care however to give your phone
number only when you feel sure that you can trust the other person with
it. Meantime you can use a public telephone or blocking features to
prevent your number from appearing in Caller ID or reserve
conversations on the phone to a later time.
Choose
a safe, public place to meet
When you decide to meet each other directly pick a safe, public place
and provide your own transportation to and fro.
Inform
your friend/s
Before going for your offline date/meeting remember to inform your
friend/s or people who can keep a lookout for you about where you are
going and when you can be expected back. Give them your dates contact
particulars, name and other information you have.
During
your meeting
Do not do anything you are uncomfortable with. If you feel there is
something wrong or you are afraid to continue being with your date seek
help immediately or thank the person and leave the place. Always keep
in mind your safety is more important than the one persons or a few
passersbys opinion of you.
Regardless
of where you meet someone, traditional offline dating or
online dating, there are always people who are wonderful and great and
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Trust
yourself. Trust your instincts. Take care, choose the right people and
have fun !
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